Scholar's Sweetheart

Dabao and Xiaobao were very similar when they were young. As they grew up, their appearance changed a lot. Although they were similar, they could distinguish them at a glance.

Dabao's personality is very different from Xiaobao's. Dabao's personality is quiet and introverted, gentle as jade, like Lu Yunkai's. He is gentle and polite on the surface, but he is actually a sesame seed stuffing man.

When he first arrived in Changshan County, he was less than 20 years old, and his appearance was a little tender. He looked very easy to deceive, so he was looked down upon by the county officials.

People often don't pay attention to his words. They always go against the law and collude with the rich people in the county to give him trouble.

Dabao has nothing to say, let the following people think that the new magistrate is a soft bun, so become more unscrupulous.

But after a few months, these people couldn't laugh at all. Because Dabao directly took the county government's old doggies away, along with a group of people in the county who had filled in trouble for him.

At this time, many people knew that even if the magistrate was weak, it was not provocative. The remaining merchants were glad that they had not offended the magistrate, or they would have been exiled to the border like others.

After all, everyone has been in business for many years, and no one's means are clean, so it's better to be careful.

Since then, Dabao has emerged in Changshan County, so that a long time later, the senior official of guanbai Sanpin has been called xiaomianhu.

In fact, Dabao really feels wronged. He always adheres to what elder sister Chang taught him: "if you respect me, I'll pay you back." If you bully them, you will pay them back.

So he always treats people peacefully, but there are always people who bully him with a kind face. After being taught, they tell him that he is a ruthless person.

Dabao is strict with himself and works for the people. As long as the people are happy, they will be satisfied. This is the reason why he can make countless people praise him as a good official after many years.

Many years later, someone asked him why he could keep his original intention unchanged and devote himself to being a good official working for the people?

Dabao fell into memory.

When he was young, his parents died early, and his eldest sister took him and his twin brother to live together. He still remembers that his family was poor at that time, he didn't have enough to eat every day, and he was also severely treated by his grandmother's family in name, and his life was extremely difficult.

At that time, in order for them to eat more food, the elder sister went to the county every day to do the washing work. She persisted for more than half a year, and finally fell ill.

The elder sister was ill for many days and finally woke up in a sunny day.

From that day on, the elder sister seems to be lucky.

At that time, he and his younger brother were very happy that life at home was getting better and better, and they were afraid that one day they would not be lucky and everything would be gone. So he has been searching for, for fear that the future will not go on.

At that time, he didn't understand the meaning of being mean by being mean. He only wanted to save good things and save them for another day. He couldn't eat them all at once. But later the elder sister said: money is not saved, but earned. People need to take a long-term view and can't be limited to the light and shadow in front of them. It's easy to trap themselves.

Later, under the guidance of his elder sister, he was no longer mean, but he would not waste too much.

The older you grow up, the more you learn from your elder sister.

Like doing business.

Although he became an official, he had a lot of business in his hands, so he had no shortage of money. Even if he was an ordinary small landlord, he could live a free and unrestrained life. Although he is not in business, he knows everything he knows, because the elder sister says that only if she knows it, can she know it well.

Although scholars, peasants, businessmen and businessmen are humble, he is not ashamed of this, because the business in his family makes them eat and clothe, the money in his family makes them read and read, and he can be alone in thousands of temptations.

Another example is the principle of dealing with people.

The elder sister said that if people respect me a foot, I'm still one foot. Although we have to forgive others, we will not return good for bad.

The elder sister said that she respected the old and loved the young, and respected women. Therefore, he never despises women and respects tough women who are self-improvement and independent.

Elder sister said: people are not virtuous, do not pay; Don't take money without justice; Don't do what you think is not good; Don't say anything unless you believe it. There is no greater evil than self indulgence, and no greater blame than the wrongdoing of others. A gentleman loves money and takes it in a proper way; A villain loves money. He who does not cheat will steal.

Elder sister said: Be kind, worthy of heart, worthy of heaven, worthy of family.

After leaving the capital and going out to be an official, he always thought that he should not be a good official. He did things in the name of his elder sister and brother-in-law. So whenever he went to a place, he would secretly tell himself not to do anything against his will.

It is also because of his care for his elder sister and always remembering her words that he refused to be seduced and kept his original intention for a long time, and always chose to be a good man.

So when people ask, "why can we always keep our original intention unchanged and be a good official dedicated to serving the people?" At that time, Dabao thought for a long time, and finally said slowly, "it's probably because I have a sister."