I Am In College And Start To Become A Daddy

After playing on the swing for a while, Lin Xuan took the babies to the sandpit to play.

"Baby, look, people are not afraid when they just came here. They are younger than you. Besides, mom is here, don't be afraid. Mom will take you to play, okay?"

The woman looked at her little daughter and said gently.

The little girl listened to her mother's words and didn't move, she just looked at Dabao and Erbao curiously.

She found that the two children seemed to be different from other children.

"Baby, do you want to play with them?"

The woman looked at her daughter and kept her eyes on the two children just now. She squatted down and asked in front of her daughter.

After a while, the little girl said, "Mom, I want to go, but will they play with me?"

After speaking, the little girl became worried again.

The woman's eyes lit up when she heard this.

This was the first time I heard my daughter say that she wanted to play with other children.

"Then, baby, mom will take you with you, but you need to ask them yourself, if they want to play with you, then mom will allow you to play with them, okay?"

"Uh-huh."

The woman smiled slightly, took her daughter's hand, and walked towards Lin Xuan together.

"Sir, please excuse me."

Lin Xuan was playing in the sandpit with the babies, and when he heard the sound, he looked curiously and found that it was the woman just now, so he wondered: 'Hello, is there something wrong? ’

"Baby, tell me, don't be afraid, mom is here."

The woman squatted beside her daughter and encouraged her not to be afraid.

The little girl, looking at Dabao, Erbao's eyes suddenly became a little nervous.

Relying on his courage, he weakly said: 'Well, can I play with you? ’

"Dabao, Erbao, this elder sister is asking you guys."

"Would you like to play with this sister?"

Hearing this, Lin Xuan looked at Dabao and Erbao, and said gently.

Dabao, Erbao nodded, Dabao said in a milky voice: 'Sister, yes, you are welcome. ’

When the little girl heard this, she immediately became happy.

"Baby, they agreed, what are you going to say at this time?"

"thanks."

"It's so good, go and play with your brother and sister."

The little girl nodded and walked over voluntarily.

When she came to Dabao, Erbao's side, Dabao, Erbao began to share with her, and also explained what they were stacking in the sandpit. ,

"Thank you, sir."

Seeing that her daughter was playing with the two children, the woman couldn't help but let out a sigh of relief and thanked Lin Xuan.

"It's okay, it just so happens that my two little babies don't have other children to play with. Your daughter comes over, and my baby has a playmate."

"I don't know what Mr.'s name is?"

"My name is Lin Xuan."

"Hello, Mr. Lin, my name is Cai Qingshu, this is my daughter, Yi Yutong, nicknamed Tongtong."

"My son, Lin Xiaoran, and my daughter, Lin Xuantong."

"But when we are at home, we all call Dabao, Erbao."

"Mr. Lin, your two children are so cute. How old are they this year?"

"It's over a year old this year."

"Oh, my daughter just turned three years old not long ago."

"However, this child has been a little introverted since she was a child, and she doesn't like to talk much. Originally, I brought her to the amusement park to see other children, hoping to change her daughter's introverted personality, but it still can't be changed."

"But fortunately, I met two children from Mr. Lin's family today. My family is Tongtong. It seems that I like to play with them very much."

Children are introverted. As parents, they should guide their children properly and let them learn to communicate with others.

When playing outside, parents try to create more opportunities for their children to contact other children and let the children play together.

Because peers will have more topics, and over time, it can effectively improve the problem of children's reluctance to talk.

Parents spend more time with their children, chat with their children, and understand their inner thoughts.

In addition, when parents and children chat, starting from the point of interest of the child, trying to find a way to open the child's heart, the child's heart knot is opened, and gradually he will love to talk.

For example, when she likes to do what she likes to do, when she is a parent, she should try her best to let her say it herself, don't say it too hard, and when you speak, you should also be gentle.

Adults should communicate patiently and do not force children.

Don't tell your child that you need to talk more every day just because you are in a hurry. If you talk too much, your child will get tired of listening, and will have a rebellious mentality, and you will not want to communicate with others.

Parents change their children from the details of their lives and teach them how to get along with others.

When parents are socializing, they should teach their children basic etiquette, such as visiting guests at home and seeing elders when they go out. Children should learn to say hello to elders, and cultivate children into polite children.

And when they do something wrong, their parents should also educate them well. At this time, they should give them reason instead of yelling at them.

When it is time to be punished, it must be punished.

Lin Xuan told Cai Qingshu about his education and what he knew.

"We are also educating in this way, but, Tongtong's father is usually busy. Most of the education of children is taught by me."

"It may be that sometimes, she did not guide her correctly, which caused her to become what she is now."

"Actually, don't think that children are young now, but they are very smart and can perceive the attitude of their parents."

As parents, in educating children, we should not be too hasty, as it will easily lead to other situations.

"We should spend more time with our children and give them a beautiful and happy childhood."

"Mr. Lin, thank you for what you said. After I go back, I will slowly change and change a way of education."

Cai Qingshu nodded heavily.

In fact, Tongtong is introverted, and they are naturally anxious when they are parents. They were fine when they were young, but if they were older, this introverted personality would be very likely to be bullied in school.

In the event of being bullied, coupled with the child's introverted nature, there is a good chance that they will not be told.

In this case, children are bullied, and their parents don't know it.

With the addition of new friends, Dabao and Erbao also seemed very happy, and even took the initiative to talk to Tongtong.

However, Tongtong is still a little introverted, and every time she talks to them, her face is a little red.

But in Cai Qingshu's view, this is a good thing.

Now there are children who are playing with Tongtong. Although Tongtong doesn't talk as much as they do, they finally talk, right?

She thought to herself that if Dabao and Erbao could get in touch with Tongtong more, meet each other, and then play together, maybe they could change Tongtong's introverted character.