Back To Qiqi Farming To Raise Children

Xu Shiyan was very happy when his son was born and healthy.

After returning home for dinner, I immediately went to the commune, borrowed the commune's phone number, called Daying commune, and asked someone to send a letter to Su Weizhong.

Afterwards, Xu Shiyan found Wang Jiaren and asked for leave. He also borrowed a bicycle and rode back to the big house to announce the good news.

Xu Chenghou was also very happy when he learned that he had added a grandson, so he took away the eggs that his family had recently traded for Xu Shiyan.

"Let your mother take good care of the confinement there, and you don't have to worry about her at home, and you can work hard.

You are also a father now, and you have a heavy burden on your shoulders. You must work hard, and you have to support your wife and children. "The old father urged earnestly.

Xu Shiyan missed his family and didn't delay in the big house. After chatting with his father for a while, he rode his bicycle back to Donggang.

Su Anying stayed in the hospital for one night, and the doctor checked her body the next morning.

After confirming that there was no problem, Xu Shiyan was asked to go through the discharge procedures and take Su Anying home for confinement.

Going home is naturally much more convenient. With Zhou Guilan taking good care of her, Su Anying soon had milk.

The baby has something to eat, neither crying nor fussing, sleeps when full, urinates when waking up, eats after urinating.

This little guy has a big appetite, he urinates a lot when he eats a lot, and the urinals prepared at home are almost not enough.

The clothesline outside is full of children's clothes, which look like colorful flags.

After the little boy was born, his eyes were kept closed, and he didn't open them until five or six days later.

When Xu Shiyan went to work on the mountain and came home in the evening, he found out that his son had opened his eyes, so he hurried over to hug him up.

In the end, I don't know what happened. The little baby who was originally fine, suddenly burst into tears when he saw Xu Shiyan.

Well, since he was born, he has never cried like this.

Those who didn't know the crying sound thought that Xu Shiyan had secretly strangled the child while no one was paying attention.

"Look at you, if you don't know how to hold a child, don't hold it. If you hold it, the child will cry like this."

When Zhou Guilan heard that her grandson was crying, she was so angry that she quickly snatched her grandson over to coax her.

It was strange, the child was crying loudly in Xu Shiyan's arms, but when it was in Zhou Guilan's arms, it only shook slightly, and the little thing stopped crying.

"Little bastard, do you dislike your father?" Xu Shiyan was so angry at his son.

Is this bastard despising him? In her previous life, she despised him for being poor and refused to be his son.

I finally had a better life in this life. I took care of this little bastard. What the hell, I still hate it, right?

"Go aside, I just came back from the mountain, smelling like sweat.

Besides, I don't know if you brought Cao Cengzi back from the mountain, so hurry up and change your clothes and wash your face. "

Zhou Guilan hugged her grandson, rolled her son's eyes, and looked disgusted.

Ticks, scientifically known as ticks, grow in the woods and feed on the blood of humans and animals.

This thing bites people and doesn't let go, it keeps sticking into the flesh.

If it is pulled out forcefully, even if the body is broken, the mouthparts will not let go, and it will remain in the flesh forever, and some may grow into sarcoma.

The most important thing is that this thing is carrying forest encephalitis virus, if it gets infected, it is very dangerous and it is easy to die.

When people who live in mountainous areas come back from the mountains, the first thing to do is to check their bodies, especially the hidden places such as armpits, behind ears, and thighs.

As the weather gets warmer, grass crawlers do come out to move around.

Xu Shiyan didn't dare to argue with his mother, so he hurried to fetch water, washed his hair, scrubbed his body indiscriminately, and changed into a suit of clothes.

I thought that if this was the case, the child would stop crying, right?

As a result, Xu Shiyan just got close to his son, and before he could pick him up, the little thing started to grin and cry again.

"You say this is also evil, and we won't hear him cry even if you're not at home.

People's children eat and sleep, sleep and eat, but they are well-behaved. I have never met such a coaxable child.

Hey, as soon as you came home to visit him, the child cried. If I hadn't been watching right in front of my eyes, I would definitely think that you secretly pinched him. "

Zhou Guilan was also left speechless by the father and son, why did the father and son have a natural hatred? Cry when we meet?

Xu Shiyan raised his hands in surrender, "Well, can I stay away from him? This bear must have had a grudge against me in the previous life."

Brat, wait until you grow up, and see how I deal with you.

Xu Shiyan muttered silently in his heart, and left his son's side, but as soon as he left, the little baby stopped crying immediately.

It's really dumbfounding for Zhou Guilan and Su Anying, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

"Hey, I never got along with you when you were young, so what can you do when you grow up? Isn't this what your father and third child are like again?"

Zhou Guilan sat on the edge of the Kang and looked down at the little guy under the quilt who was less than seven days old.

"Why do you think you are such a bear? Why do you have trouble with your father? Sigh."

Xiaowa couldn't understand anything, lying on the kang, spitting milk bubbles, and smiled at Zhou Guilan.

This smile made Zhou Guilan's mouth shut from ear to ear, and she quickly hugged her grandson to coax her.

"How fun, a little thing less than seven days old, he can laugh."

When Xiaowa just laughed, Su Anying also saw it, and now she was even more surprised.

"Yeah, he can actually laugh. At that time, my fifth and sixth younger sisters would only laugh when the moon was full."

Su Anying looked at her son, always feeling that this little guy seemed a little different.

"This guy must be a smart and naughty kid in the future.

You two take good care of your child and put your heart into it. In the future, you will count on him to support you in the old age. "

In most people's minds, it is a rule that has been passed down for many years for the eldest son to provide for the elderly, and Zhou Guilan is no exception.

Xu Shiyan, who was sitting on the stool over there, couldn't help but hum when he heard this.

Count on your son to retire? I guess I thought too much.

When the baby grows up, it will be different then.

The child is promising, he is admitted to university and works outside, and it is good to come back two or three times a year.

In a big city, to buy a house, buy a car and marry a wife, the family may have to help with some money.

Life in the city is not easy and stressful. How can parents cause trouble for their children?

If the child has no future and cannot pass the college entrance examination, what can he do if he stays at home?

Planting sticks? Doing business?

It's not easy to live by myself, and maybe my parents have to pay for the marriage.

When they have children again in the future, the cost of raising children is high at that time, and there are various cram schools, and the pressure of life is high enough. Can the old couple be willing to let their son worry about it?

It is said that raising children to guard against old age is actually the same thing, but it is just a hope in my heart.

After being reborn, Xu Shiyan also figured it out, whether it is a daughter or a son, raising them is never for the purpose of preventing old age, and there is no need to always talk about old age.

As long as the children have a good life and are capable, it is impossible to see their parents helpless.

Therefore, it is the duty of parents to do their best to cultivate their children into talents.

As long as parents fulfill their responsibilities, since they have given their children life, at least for the first twenty years, they should be responsible for their children. After that, it all depends on the individual.