All Hail Cousin Brother

Yu Mengxiang is also together.

On the second day after the old lady passed away, Yu Mengxiang returned to the Yu Mansion to help with the funeral of his aunt, but she was a married daughter, so she couldn't stay at her mother's house for dinner or overnight, and she left early and returned late every day.

As soon as Mrs. Song arrived in front of Mrs. Yu's spirit, she knelt down on the futon and cried, "My old sister, you just leave as soon as you say, you have taken care of your children for most of your life. Enjoy, granddaughter’s goodness, I didn’t see it, you said you, what are you trying to achieve, your man is a lack of virtue, he died early and gave birth early, leaving you orphans and widows, your Yufu On this day, the future of your children depends on you, a widow, sweating and crying, relying on your observance of festivals and hard work for half a lifetime..."

Yu Zongshen lowered his head. After Mrs. Yu passed away, he stayed in front of the coffin every day, not caring about everything and asking nothing.

Even if the family asked him to discuss things, he just said: "You can decide, I am now Ding You's filial son, I shouldn't be an official, I don't care about things."

The first three years of not being away from the mother and offspring should be taken care of by the parents at all times. After the death of the parents, the son should also repay the mother for three years. This is a kindness.

A filial son, a virtuous husband, and a strict father who has pretended to be a filial son for more than ten years, he has grown into what his mother wants according to his mother's wishes. This is nourishment.

He became the first assistant, glorified the lintel, and let his mother see the prosperity of the Yu clan, which was enough to offset the sacrifices made by the widowed mother for him.

He repays the childbirth, nourishment, and devotion one by one.

Yu Zongzheng was originally guilty of the old lady's death, and even his straight waist couldn't help but collapse after hearing the old lady Song's words, and he cringed a little.

Yu Youyao's eyes were also red. Yu Zongzheng and Yu Zongshen's current achievements were due to her biological mother's money on the one hand, but the most important thing was to benefit from her grandmother's great reputation for keeping festivals.

Whether it is a reconciled woman, divorced woman, or remarried woman, her reputation is always bad, and she will always be looked down upon by others, which will bring shame to the family.

On the contrary, widows who keep chastity for their husbands will be respected by the world. Women are virtuous, their children are virtuous, and their families are chaste. No matter where they go, they will be looked down upon.

Even the imperial court is willing to reuse it.

Mrs. Zhen Guohou hurried over to help Mrs. Song, and Mrs. Zongzhang also went over to persuade her.

Mrs. Song refused to get up, and cried and sang bad words in front of Mrs. Yu's spirit.

Since Mrs. Yu married into the Yu Mansion,

Every word and sentence is full of old Madam Yu's bitterness in the past, and behind those scenes, there is an unknown helplessness and hard work.

The listener wept, and the listener was sad.

Think about it too, in this world where the husband is the heaven, how can a widow whose husband died have a good life? In the past, people didn't talk about it because it was hard to talk about it.

Now that everyone is gone, what else can I say?

No matter how much anyone in the house persuaded him, he couldn't persuade him.

In the end, it was the second old lady who heard the sound and couldn't help but her eyes were red: "The old ancestor and our old lady have been together for a lifetime. The old sister left, and the old ancestor felt uncomfortable. This is also human nature, so I went with the old ancestor. Some The words have been held back for a lifetime, and it is better to speak them out."

Mrs. Song cried and sang two sticks of incense when she sang badly, and her voice became hoarse afterwards. While crying, she hugged Yu Youyao into her arms: "My dear grandson, how long has your grandmother been gone?" My God, why did you lose weight, how will you live without your grandmother in the future, what a sin, what a granddaughter, how can your grandmother be cruel, close your eyes and kick your legs, there will be no Is it..."

Yu Youyao was thirteen years old, the age when she met and got engaged. With Bao Ningchi's orders, it would take a later time, but this didn't hinder her. Madam Yu secretly searched and prepared.

After more than ten years of raising her, her granddaughter has just grown up, and her marriage has not yet been settled. Why is Mrs. Yu so relieved?

She doesn't believe it!

"Grandmother Song, I miss Grandmother so much..." Yu Youyao burst into tears, pretending to be strong, and completely collapsed in Grandmother Song's arms.

In the filial piety hall, there was another cry of mourning.

Zhen Guohou's Mansion was worried about Mrs. Song's health, so they tried to persuade Mrs. Song to leave Xiaotang.

Song Wanhui took Yu Youyao's hand: "You look so ugly, are you sick? When we entered the mansion, we saw your family sending Imperial Doctor Hu out of the mansion."

No matter who comes to worship, they must first arrange to have a cup of tea. Every family, men and women must enter the filial hall separately, lest the guests come too much at once, lose their etiquette, and bump into the filial hall.

After their family entered the mansion, they waited for the Taoist priests to settle down before inviting them to Xiaotang.

Yu Youyao's voice was hoarse: "Physician Hu only said that it was due to excessive fatigue and stagnation of liver qi, so he prescribed some medicine. If you take more care of it in the future, you will be fine."

Song Wanhui looked at her, her white jade-like hands had lost their joints: "I can't complain that I've become so skinny. People can't be resurrected after death. Don't be too sad, but take care of yourself."

In the past, Yu Youyao was also thin, her body was soft and round, and she looked delicate and soft, but she was so thin, she was a little too thin, and she looked weak and sickly.

Yu Youyao nodded.

Seeing that her eyes were red and swollen, her face was pale and haggard, Song Wanhui didn't know how to persuade her: "I wanted to write to you, but my mother wouldn't let me. She said that Grandma Yu passed away, and you already have enough things at home. , let me not make any trouble."

Yu Youyao said: "These days, the family is very busy. Although there is help from the clan, many things still need to be handled by the family."

Although Yao's family is also a daughter-in-law, the two families have divided the family. The old lady has returned to the eldest house, and the funeral is mainly done by the elder family, with the second family as a supplement.

Dafang has no elders here. She is both a direct descendant and an elder, and she is also the most beloved granddaughter of her grandmother, so she is about to step forward.

Next, the Qi Mansion also came over.

Mrs. Qi, like Mrs. Song, knelt in front of Mrs. Yu's spirit, crying and singing, tossing and tossing for a long time before she persuaded her to enter the room.

The results of it!

As soon as Mrs. Qi and Mrs. Song met, they hugged each other and wept so hard that they couldn't get off the ground without saying a word.

They old sisters know best how much old Madam Yu has endured in her life.

There is a lot of right and wrong in front of the widow, right and wrong.

Mr. Yu has only been there for more than ten years, and Mrs. Yu, as a young daughter-in-law, can't even leave the house, and can't participate in the banquet held in Beijing.

Even if I go to the temple, I have to find old sisters to accompany me.

A woman is both a man and a wife, but she, a widow, can't show up for what a man does, so she can only think of ways to calculate, be considerate, and do her best.

Not everyone is born to be calculating, but they are forced to do nothing by life, so they can only calculate.